![]() Now Dad#1 has temporarily moved into her apartment with his new girlfriend. Then she started cheating WITH him on his currently-pregnant girlfriend. She was married to Dad#2 until he cheated. She got pregnant as a teenager and has two kids by two men. ![]() She comes across as attractive and normal. If there is a conflict, I always scrutinize my feelings and perspective before the other person's. I'm not a jealous person and know that I can't change someone or dictate how to live their life. I'm a pretty good judge of character and strongly dislike unethical people. He doesn't want to lose Lacey's friendship. He gets sad about the fact that he has very few friends. My happiness is one of his greatest priorities, but he won't compromise his values or beliefs to please me. He's extremely loyal and respectful towards women. He's nonjudgmental (a little too much, in my opinion) Henceforth I will call this girl "Lacey" and I'll call my boyfriend "Joe." And I feel that my boyfriend should be more alert to the red flags that I'm seeing from her. The summary is this: I don't trust his female friend AT ALL. We've had a solid and happy relationship until this point.and it's still mostly happy as long as his "friend" doesn't come up in conversation. He and I are in our 20s and have been together for two years. Lately, I've been stressed by a new addition in my boyfriend's life: his female friend from work. I can't discuss this with anyone in my life, so *really* I hope you can help me wrap my head around this problem. Am I wrong? I hate fighting with my wife and we see this very differently but I don't think I am wrong. She asked me what I want her to do - the problem is I want her to figure it out herself that she shouldn't respond to him after a certain time period. I trust my wife but I don't trust this other individual that I know sits next to her and works with her every day. I asked why he was texting her and she got pissed saying i didn't trust her. Since then I assume they instant message each other during work and recently was at home and saw him text her at 10pm. I confronted her after seeing this occur over several weeks - she insisted nothing was going on, he apologized the day after he texted and called her at night and that she had no bad intentions. Nothing inappropriate but it wasn't all focused on work either. I then looked at her computer (I know I shouldn't have) and found that they were instant messaging each other all day at work. ![]() The issue came up when I discovered texts from this man over the course of an evening until after midnight, including songs and videos he was sending her and a 30-minute phone conversation while I was out that evening. I attempted to blow this off trusting my wife. They did end up out together one night for drinks after a few co-workers left and then a few days later he bought her an expensive bottle of wine which she told me about. She insists it's nothing more than a friendship and that is her intention which is all that matters. In her new job, she immediately became friends with a male co-worker who I know is mid-40s (she is 31). In addition, to be fair, I can be jealous at times (she never gets jealous) and have had moments of making something out of nothing on occasion. I have never doubted her loyalty to me and continue to believe that she will be faithful. I will start off by saying she is very honest, loyal and has a history of being good friends with other men as well as women. ![]()
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